Five
years ago I adopted Logan, a flop-eared, 5 year old (we
thought), big, and loving German Shepherd from the local
pound. She had outstayed her welcome there and was on
the Put to Sleep list. The kind people there kept
stalling for time for her.
I had
just moved to Tennessee and promptly settled in to, not
just a wonderful new life with my new family but, a
serious case of depression. I went on Petfinder to find
a dog (preferably a Shepherd) that needed me as much as
I needed him/her. It was love at first sight with
Logan: a beautiful, skinny girl who had nice manners
and a gentle temperament. Training her, fattening her
up, and helping her settle in not only helped us bond
but helped my depression lift. If being with her made
me feel so much better, imagine how it could make others
feel, I thought.
My
mother-in-law’s retirement home had regular visits from
therapy dogs and, after some research, thought
TherapyARC would be perfect for Logan and me.
We started the TherapyARC program in April 2002 and
graduated in August. She and I learned a lot together,
had so much fun, and couldn’t wait to begin our
“visits.”
Sadly,
Logan died November 1, 2002, after a brief illness and
before we could get started.
While
Logan was sick, a TherapyARC teacher, Linda Brewer,
called to tell me that a neighbor dog was headed back to
the pound due to his owner’s divorce. Would I be
interested? Not then, but a week after Logan passed and
I really “needed” another Shepherd to love I was ready
to adopt Zep. He’s now a seven-year-old, 92 pound
bundle of beautiful black and tan fun who still goes
through puppyhood regularly. And Linda Brewer is his
proud godmother (plus now a dear friend in addition to
instructor!)
Zep
quickly became an important member of the family and we
found that, thanks to Linda, he already possessed good
manners and was quick to learn. Thinking that he would
make the perfect Delta Dog, we couldn’t wait to start
the program. But first, he needed a friend.
Back
to Petfinders and a trip to a pet adoption later, we
brought home Silver. She, too, is a flop-eared
Shepherd, black and silver colored, and about five years
old.
It was
soon clear, however, that our Princess Silver enjoyed
spending her days ignoring Zep and bossing him around
rather than playing with him. But her temperament and
unusual looks plus her intelligence made her a good
Delta candidate.
Zep
graduated in May and Silver in July. After distributing
Press Kits and talking with local schools, senior
centers, and “test driving” other types of facilities,
we decided that 21st Century Adult Day Services, an
organization that works with adults with brain injuries,
would be a good place to visit.
In
June of 2003, Zep and I made our first official trip to
21st Century. I was a little anxious, primarily because
I was not familiar working in this environment. Within
a few minutes all my nervousness went out the door
because we were so busy saying hello and having so many
people come to introduce themselves. It was
overwhelming, but a warm, welcoming beginning!
Zep
and I met all kinds of people that day: Mr. B., a
survivor of a stroke, petted Zep non-stop; T., a young
woman in a wheelchair who talked about her two dogs
while massaging Zep’s ears; and many others. The staff
were friendly and seemed to enjoy the visit.
There
were a few who really didn’t seem to want to visit with
us and that was ok, too. One gentleman, J., seemed a
bit hostile. One young man, R., totally ignored us.
And F. and F., the two board-game-playing men were not
interested. Hmmm I thought. Maybe this may not be as
easy and warm-fuzzies as I originally imagined. For the
most part our visit went well. Zep enjoyed the
attention and we made some people smile. Next week may
be different.
Anyway, I continued to visit every week; some days
bringing Zep and other times Silver.
It
became a game with some of the clients: can you
remember which dog this is? Who do you think I’ll bring
next time? The mental stimulation and break in routine
these games provided was welcomed and the staff was so
appreciative.
The
clients also “taught” the dogs tricks: “sit,” “down,”
and “say hello (raising a paw)” gave a feeling of
importance and accomplishment and the look on the faces
of some of these people were wonderful beyond words.
There
is one gentleman there, Mr. J., who is confined to a
wheelchair and is in failing health. He keeps to
himself, hardly ever talks to anybody, and very rarely
participates in the activities. Every Wednesday though,
he saves part of his lunch to share with the dogs,
including leftovers for the dogs left at home. We
always enjoy hearing stories about his dog and look
forward to the treats.
One
day in March, Silver and I went to the Center and
noticed the door was closed and the lights were off out
back. Odd. The next thing we know, all the lights came
on, everyone started clapping, and the surprise “Thank
You” party for us was in full swing! These people, many
in wheelchairs with severe physical and neurological
difficulties, had all made greeting cards for the dogs
and me and even made up and sang a song about us.
This
past March, my husband Joe and I rescued and fostered a
Shepherd/Husky mix named Duncan. He was a scrawny,
matted, hookworm-positive dog who was chained up for
four years and whose hips had atrophied so much that the
vet originally thought they were dysplastic. But what a
sweet, gentle fellow. He longed for a family. Joe fell
in love with him and thought we should keep him (this
really was his idea, not mine!) Duncan is another
flop-eared dog, four years old, and about as adorable as
they come. Well, you can guess the rest. He became a
Delta dog just two weeks ago and we can’t wait for our
paperwork to go through so I can take him to the Center!
And by
the way: J. the young man who seemed hostile, taught me
how to play checkers and is usually the first one at the
door to help me with the dogs; F. & F., the
checker-playing men, now enjoy trading jokes and barbs
with me each week. It’s difficult for me to try and
stay ahead of them!
We
lost a client to illness and Silver and I were there
when everyone got the bad news.
There
are so many stories; most of them funny and happy but a
few sad that I could share. It’s been a year and a half
since we started visiting and I’m looking forward to
more time with them. Along with helping in the
community, I enjoy being a Pet Partner for other
reasons. The dogs and I have made "public appearances"
at many social events; promoted shelter/rescue/older
dogs as wonderful companions and great future Delta Dogs
(recycled dogs!); helped educate people on pet care and
obedience training; and have made so many great friends.